I get what you mean both, but I also think some people try to push the limits which is not ok (at least if people are not that kind of friends where is acceptable) I saw
@UnusualSubstance being insulted (just because he's goofing around and is at the age where he tries to understand life) with some stupid history on the other forum, which is also stupid to continue it here.
For me, I can easily push back on the jokes or whatever, but there are people that don't and they're picked on. And yeah, I am not shy to use the Ignore button.
Don't get me wrong I love the energy here, but I also think the back and forth discussions/drama with the other forum/members, doesn't help overall at the growth of this one.