Makes sense to me. It was my brother that introduced me to the forum back around lockdown time when I said I wanted to learn marketing to help with the family business. I have since shelved that idea due to other commitments but I did take that place, very very seriously since. But one little disagreement with mods, instead of handling any constructive critcisim and maybe passing on feedback, I felt they took that personally, as if you are questioning
their 'authority'. I swear I felt after a disagreement a mod waited ages to leap on me again at the right enough moment - which, in this case was 'arguing' with a 'more favourite' member. Granted I was in no position to be throwing tonnes of money at them, but I was still a paying member. I bought as regularly as I should have, and I tried my best to abide by the rules; I never even used any profanities on the board, let alone anything else. All that hard work building up a reputation to try to help me earn a living and *poof*. Just like that, it's gone. And down to I feel - ego problems of a few people in power. The last part is obviously disputable. But that's how it looked to me and I was hardly there to make trouble

Anyway, I did think Z was one of the more pleasant and easy going staff their to talk to. Some of the mods were fine too. Decent in fact. But with others, it was the case they would become assholes seemingly as soon as they got promoted, wheras some were assholes abusing power since before I got there, and apparently continued to be so after I was no longer a member.