How many kids do you have?

Kids are Blessings and the Greatest Gift from God ❤️

I've two Kids -

Two Little Daughters ✌️
I love them with all my Heart and Take care of them.. I would just like to simply say, " THANK YOU " God for the greatest Gift and real Life Blessings..
 
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Oaw!!! daughters are like angels.

wishing you a great luck and blessings.

Yep, I was expected one of them to be a Boy :)
But , God's plan is Different..

I just accepted it and Loved the Gift Unconditionally ..
Ofcourse, Daughters are angels 🧚‍♀️

Thank you so much ❤️
 
Do you think kids are blessing or pain in your life journey?

Share your thoughts.

Children are a blessing. There are many couples in this world who live without children—they alone know the pain of living in solitude.
So, cherish the gift of having children, extend your family lineage, and live a joyful life.

I have two boys. My firstborn is a bit stubborn, and the second is playful and naughty—but I love them both dearly.
 
No kids, don't like them and don't plan any but I'm happy that you guys enjoy your family life :). Realistically there need to be some people that have kids and some that don't. If everyone has kids then there's overpopulation and poverty but if noone has them then whole population would die eventually so balance is key.
 
If everyone has kids then there's overpopulation and poverty
This is wrong, my friend, better to not argue with me about "latest statistics" etc... you may be young to realise what I am trying to tell, but you will realise over time and when you get older
 
This is wrong, my friend, better to not argue with me about "latest statistics" etc... you may be young to realise what I am trying to tell, but you will realise over time and when you get older
That's very silly argument. I'm disabled since birth so I don't need to wait to old age to have problems, I'm already in worse condition than many people in old age. I never experienced health or an easy time or even having no responsibilities as a child (I work since 12). There are many old people that are very healthy and doing better than younger people, met some incredibly athletic elders when I was taking tai chi classes. Would love to be as healthy as them. So that argument alone is just dumb. Go to any cemetary, you'll see small graves of children that died. Not everyone lives to old age and not everyone is healthy and has it easy when young. And... So what? I'm sick I have to earn anyway. I have to live day to day somehow anyway. I paid a cleaning company, they cleaned the house yesterday. I needed someone to install gas cannister, I paid a guy at gas shop to do it. Single, childfree people do just fine and often have nice lifestyles. I could have attacked you all, could have complained about how I abhor children, instead I choosed to be positive. What I get in return? Your toxicity and you trying to force your lifestyle (usually dictated by religion) on me. Very sad, it shows how weak and unsteady you are in your life choices. I knew someone would surely react like this and pondered for a moment if I should ignore the thread or not but that kind of behaviour has to change. You need to learn your place, basic culture. You can't go around and insult other peoples' life choices. Learn to accept that not everyone has to live like you want them to, especially a stranger. You're not paying my bills, you have no authority over my life (or any other person for that matter, other than your children and your wife if she's stay at home housewife).

This for some reason doesn't allow embeds but shows how 'unhappy' childfree women are - not at all.

Just get a fuckin life. Nobody is stopping you from breeding or even enjoying family life. Just make sure you raise your children well so they'll grow into good members of society and not some of these self-entitled prospects I get on sales calls. Like I said, I have no problem with people that have children. *You* have a weird problem lol.
 
No kids, don't like them and don't plan any but I'm happy that you guys enjoy your family life :). Realistically there need to be some people that have kids and some that don't. If everyone has kids then there's overpopulation and poverty but if noone has them then whole population would die eventually so balance is key.

No kids?
Don't like them ?
Don't plan anything yet, but i hope you will plan in the near future..

Gone are the days, our ancestors like grand mothers have like 10 to 15 kids .. buy now things changed like 1 - 2 kids..
If God is ready to offer Gifts, Just Accept it with Grace..

Well, Life without kids is like a Forum without members.😄
 
No kids?
Don't like them ?
Don't plan anything yet, but i hope you will plan in the near future..

Gone are the days, our ancestors like grand mothers have like 10 to 15 kids .. buy now things changed like 1 - 2 kids..
If God is ready to offer Gifts, Just Accept it with Grace..

Well, Life without kids is like a Forum without members.😄
Not cool dude, you just suggested a heavily disabled person to breed, not good. But I'll try to ignore it because we were getting along otherwise.
 
No kids?
Don't like them ?
Don't plan anything yet, but i hope you will plan in the near future..

Gone are the days, our ancestors like grand mothers have like 10 to 15 kids .. buy now things changed like 1 - 2 kids..
If God is ready to offer Gifts, Just Accept it with Grace..

Well, Life without kids is like a Forum without members.😄
It's nice that you like having kids and enjoy them being a part of your life, but that's not the same for everyone. To be honest, I think there are far too many people that have children when they are simply not qualified (Not saying that about anyone in this thread of course, I'm thinking about some people I know in real life, but that's a story for another day)

Anyway, this is a nice thread but maybe we can all cool it with the "you need to have children otherwise you won't be happy in life" type sentiments? You're asking the question "how many kids you have?", it's worth listening to other people's perspectives and understanding why they make the choices they do.
 
That's very silly argument. I'm disabled since birth so I don't need to wait to old age to have problems, I'm already in worse condition than many people in old age. I never experienced health or an easy time or even having no responsibilities as a child (I work since 12). There are many old people that are very healthy and doing better than younger people, met some incredibly athletic elders when I was taking tai chi classes. Would love to be as healthy as them. So that argument alone is just dumb. Go to any cemetary, you'll see small graves of children that died. Not everyone lives to old age and not everyone is healthy and has it easy when young. And... So what? I'm sick I have to earn anyway. I have to live day to day somehow anyway. I paid a cleaning company, they cleaned the house yesterday. I needed someone to install gas cannister, I paid a guy at gas shop to do it. Single, childfree people do just fine and often have nice lifestyles. I could have attacked you all, could have complained about how I abhor children, instead I choosed to be positive. What I get in return? Your toxicity and you trying to force your lifestyle (usually dictated by religion) on me. Very sad, it shows how weak and unsteady you are in your life choices. I knew someone would surely react like this and pondered for a moment if I should ignore the thread or not but that kind of behaviour has to change. You need to learn your place, basic culture. You can't go around and insult other peoples' life choices. Learn to accept that not everyone has to live like you want them to, especially a stranger. You're not paying my bills, you have no authority over my life (or any other person for that matter, other than your children and your wife if she's stay at home housewife).

This for some reason doesn't allow embeds but shows how 'unhappy' childfree women are - not at all.

Just get a fuckin life. Nobody is stopping you from breeding or even enjoying family life. Just make sure you raise your children well so they'll grow into good members of society and not some of these self-entitled prospects I get on sales calls. Like I said, I have no problem with people that have children. *You* have a weird problem lol.
Relax, lol I didn’t force anything I was simply sharing my view, not dictating how anyone should live. I have zero interest in controlling your choices or lifestyle, and if that’s how it came across, then that’s a miscommunication

I fully respect that some people choose not to have children for personal, financial, or health reasons. That’s valid, and I never said otherwise.

I see that your life has been tough, and I respect that you’re managing it with strength and self-sufficiency. That deserves admiration. But let’s be honest: using your pain as a tool to shut down someone else's broader view isn’t productive. Just because someone says, “You’ll understand certain things with age,” doesn’t mean they’re being condescending it can mean that some truths do become clearer with time and perspective. That’s not a slight. It’s a reflection on how experience deepens understanding for all of us.

As for "toxicity," let's be fair if anyone here reacted strongly, it wasn’t me. I didn’t insult your lifestyle, didn’t judge you personally, and certainly didn’t mention religion. You brought those elements into the conversation. So maybe reflect a bit before accusing someone of being "toxic" for expressing a point of view that you disagree with.

So let’s keep it cool. Different choices, different lives. No need to turn it into a fight. Peace.
 
Not cool dude, you just suggested a heavily disabled person to breed, not good. But I'll try to ignore it because we were getting along otherwise.
I don't think his comment:

Don't plan anything yet, but i hope you will plan in the near future..

Was directed at disabled people not having them.

I think he was just saying, yes, no, maybe or later in life. Nothing there was directed any different just the way you read it sorry to say
 
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