Choosing spouse based on looks is not a smart move. Lots of pretty girls out there but that have no self-control and stark raving mad. Pick a woman that has intelligence, a moral compass and a backbone, oh and some family values. As long as she not so ugly to you personally, it's intolerable, who cares if she looks a bit average? Then earn lots of money and have fun on the side if you must with high standard escorts...
I know a few and know of some guys, mostly through my older brother (28) and Youngest Uncle (35) that are like this...
It's not my style personally, i'm more of a shaolin monk type but I think guys that do this have a good time with their favourite mistress or after a wild party together somewhere, then go home or fly home and kiss their wife and kids are usually financially successful and men of honour and can go to each other houses and parties without worrying about eyeing up each other women. They know how to seperate work and business better and focus on work when and where it's needed better. And if it's a bit social obviously there's a bro code so you don't grass on each other to their wife or family.
At least compared to guys that strong along multiple women or properly cheat on their partner with random needy women or even trying with their friends girls if they are really scummy. Emotionally abusing them and controlling them or being controlled in what always turns out to be a familial and social catastrophy and emotional shit show. There are so many strings attached what's the point? Never met a guy I know who cheated on his girl or was this way that wasn't a spineless weasel with no self-control and most of them are broke or extremely pathetic and very insecure in some way.
A smart man with some class makes a contract: I pay you money for your company and a good time. No strings attached. That's it. Keep it simple.
Obviously you need money though. Ten dollar at street hookers gonna be insult to injury and are probably poor victims of sex tafficking and/or drug addiction. Not cool. Better off doing nofap if you don't have money and wait until you do to get the blue label of escorts and mistresses.
Unless you do nofap so long you open you chakra and can levitate. Then you probably won't even care about women
. Not saying that she looks old and she surely is very hot. But she actually does look older than me. 
But then, I look kinda childlish, so there's that. Maybe one day I'll grow up to be a grown woman like her... At that rate maybe I'll get to that in my 60s.
