Finally Friday - Is your weekend going to rock, or what?

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What a fckn week it has been huh, tell me about it, hmm.

So, what is rock`n at your place this weekend? Bed maybe, or what?


Well, really hoping your weekend is going to be dopious now, have a great weekend.
 
Glad to see this week behind me. It's been a nightmare all round.

Finish my laying my floor this week, next weekend will be entire weekend of sanding, filling, sanding and sealing and if weather holds for more than 5min this weekend start office refurb.

My son was going to scouts weekend but he's not now. So plans this weekend have all changed just taking it 1 day at a time.
 
Not relaxed, I think they're kicking out foreigners from Sri Lanka. Visa office was very empty and there was a lot of denied applications, literally some dude looking suspiciously at us in a room and crossing over most applications. They granted us 2 months extension only and took payment for 3 months. I guess that's enough time to either get another visa type sorted with immigration lawyer in Sri Lanka or to move to another country and get moving company, flight and visa application documents sorted for another country.

Typical sri lankan behaviour... They invited all of us in, promised Nomad Visa that they never granted and now they're kicking us out. After letting us live here for almost 2 years. I'm not overstaying, visas are paid and were always approved. They did similar thing to tourists - they said there will be free short term tourist visas and invited everyone to have vacation in Sri Lanka but they never approved the changes so tourists still had to pay visa fees, after they arrived at the airport.

Also courier from online groceries stole a bag of potatoes lol, but I yelled at them on whatsapp and they delivered missed item. Then the other day another courier stole some cosmetics, and lo an behold - dental floss. I initiated a refund and they delivered the items. Honestly, I've been plagued lately by stuff like that + washing machine and heater breaking, etc, also not feeling very well health-wise. So yeah, not good.

Talking with immigration lawyers but if it gets very expensive or just plain impossible (maybe they just want us to leave and that's it) we'll switch countries. I dread how much it will cost to move again. I actually wanted to incorporate here for visa purposes but not sure if it's even possible or I'll pay shittons of money for scammy lawyer, visa fees, etc and still won't be granted one.
 
Not relaxed, I think they're kicking out foreigners from Sri Lanka. Visa office was very empty and there was a lot of denied applications, literally some dude looking suspiciously at us in a room and crossing over most applications. They granted us 2 months extension only and took payment for 3 months. I guess that's enough time to either get another visa type sorted with immigration lawyer in Sri Lanka or to move to another country and get moving company, flight and visa application documents sorted for another country.

Typical sri lankan behaviour... They invited all of us in, promised Nomad Visa that they never granted and now they're kicking us out. After letting us live here for almost 2 years. I'm not overstaying, visas are paid and were always approved. They did similar thing to tourists - they said there will be free short term tourist visas and invited everyone to have vacation in Sri Lanka but they never approved the changes so tourists still had to pay visa fees, after they arrived at the airport.

Also courier from online groceries stole a bag of potatoes lol, but I yelled at them on whatsapp and they delivered missed item. Then the other day another courier stole some cosmetics, and lo an behold - dental floss. I initiated a refund and they delivered the items. Honestly, I've been plagued lately by stuff like that + washing machine and heater breaking, etc, also not feeling very well health-wise. So yeah, not good.

Talking with immigration lawyers but if it gets very expensive or just plain impossible (maybe they just want us to leave and that's it) we'll switch countries. I dread how much it will cost to move again. I actually wanted to incorporate here for visa purposes but not sure if it's even possible or I'll pay shittons of money for scammy lawyer, visa fees, etc and still won't be granted one.
Have you thought about India by any chance?

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Not relaxed, I think they're kicking out foreigners from Sri Lanka. Visa office was very empty and there was a lot of denied applications, literally some dude looking suspiciously at us in a room and crossing over most applications. They granted us 2 months extension only and took payment for 3 months. I guess that's enough time to either get another visa type sorted with immigration lawyer in Sri Lanka or to move to another country and get moving company, flight and visa application documents sorted for another country.

Typical sri lankan behaviour... They invited all of us in, promised Nomad Visa that they never granted and now they're kicking us out. After letting us live here for almost 2 years. I'm not overstaying, visas are paid and were always approved. They did similar thing to tourists - they said there will be free short term tourist visas and invited everyone to have vacation in Sri Lanka but they never approved the changes so tourists still had to pay visa fees, after they arrived at the airport.

Also courier from online groceries stole a bag of potatoes lol, but I yelled at them on whatsapp and they delivered missed item. Then the other day another courier stole some cosmetics, and lo an behold - dental floss. I initiated a refund and they delivered the items. Honestly, I've been plagued lately by stuff like that + washing machine and heater breaking, etc, also not feeling very well health-wise. So yeah, not good.

Talking with immigration lawyers but if it gets very expensive or just plain impossible (maybe they just want us to leave and that's it) we'll switch countries. I dread how much it will cost to move again. I actually wanted to incorporate here for visa purposes but not sure if it's even possible or I'll pay shittons of money for scammy lawyer, visa fees, etc and still won't be granted one.
Sounds like a bunch of stress no one needs. All the best sorting that out, hope you get it resolved or plan next sets relatively stress free :)
 
Have you thought about India by any chance?

☺️
No, fuck off. Literally mass rapes there, 7 dudes at a time raping and killing a woman, leaving her insides open. I understand that it's huge country and it might depend on region, some places are bad neighbourhoods, etc but as a foreigner it's too confusing and too potentially unsafe. I can't figure out which part is safe, if any. So no, I'm not considering immigrating to India. It's NOT a clone of Sri Lanka (or the other way around), women have way more rights in Sri Lanka (honestly, a lot of women that I met were quite independent and dominant), also people usually have 1-2 kids max, it's not overpopulated like India.

Dude, I'm eastern european, I'm not interested in dating a guy that can't buy me an apartment at least (separate). It is what it is. I know it's middle of a recession and we're all hustlers and most of us are in the process of figuring our finances out, talking is fine if someone is broke but has good personality. You live with your parents and are annoying so no talking either.

Checking out Latin America and Europe at this point. Would love to get something in Asia but each time I find something that I actually like I can stay 3, maybe 5 months max, it's annoying. Found a literal look-alike city in another asian country, I was so excited... Only 5 months stay in a year allowed. Jeez. Also they have winter, wtf.
Sounds like a bunch of stress no one needs. All the best sorting that out, hope you get it resolved or plan next sets relatively stress free :)
Yeahhh, thanks. Apparently we have it better anyway since lots of people were denied on the spot and had to leave ASAP, 2 months is some time to figure it out. Good luck with your renovation/s, hope it goes smoothly.

Just ordered some iced coffee, brownie and ice cream float, I need to improve my mood eh.
 
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No, fuck off. Literally mass rapes there, 7 dudes at a time raping and killing a woman, leaving her insides open. I understand that it's huge country and it might depend on region, some places are bad neighbourhoods, etc but as a foreigner it's too confusing and too potentially unsafe. I can't figure out which part is safe, if any. So no, I'm not considering immigrating to India. It's NOT a clone of Sri Lanka (or the other way around), women have way more rights in Sri Lanka (honestly, a lot of women that I met were quite independent and dominant), also people usually have 1-2 kids max, it's not overpopulated like India.

Dude, I'm eastern european, I'm not interested in dating a guy that can't buy me an apartment at least (separate). It is what it is. I know it's middle of a recession and we're all hustlers and most of us are in the process of figuring our finances out, talking is fine if someone is broke but has good personality. You live with your parents and are annoying so no talking either.

Checking out Latin America and Europe at this point. Would love to get something in Asia but each time I find something that I actually like I can stay 3, maybe 5 months max, it's annoying. Found a literal look-alike city in another asian country, I was so excited... Only 5 months stay in a year allowed. Jeez. Also they have winter, wtf.

Yeahhh, thanks. Apparently we have it better anyway since lots of people were denied on the spot and had to leave ASAP, 2 months is some time to figure it out. Good luck with your renovation/s, hope it goes smoothly.

Just ordered some iced coffee, brownie and ice cream float, I need to improve my mood eh.
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No, fuck off. Literally mass rapes there, 7 dudes at a time raping and killing a woman, leaving her insides open. I understand that it's huge country and it might depend on region, some places are bad neighbourhoods, etc but as a foreigner it's too confusing and too potentially unsafe. I can't figure out which part is safe, if any. So no, I'm not considering immigrating to India. It's NOT a clone of Sri Lanka (or the other way around), women have way more rights in Sri Lanka (honestly, a lot of women that I met were quite independent and dominant), also people usually have 1-2 kids max, it's not overpopulated like India.

Dude, I'm eastern european, I'm not interested in dating a guy that can't buy me an apartment at least (separate). It is what it is. I know it's middle of a recession and we're all hustlers and most of us are in the process of figuring our finances out, talking is fine if someone is broke but has good personality. You live with your parents and are annoying so no talking either.

Checking out Latin America and Europe at this point. Would love to get something in Asia but each time I find something that I actually like I can stay 3, maybe 5 months max, it's annoying. Found a literal look-alike city in another asian country, I was so excited... Only 5 months stay in a year allowed. Jeez. Also they have winter, wtf.

Yeahhh, thanks. Apparently we have it better anyway since lots of people were denied on the spot and had to leave ASAP, 2 months is some time to figure it out. Good luck with your renovation/s, hope it goes smoothly.

Just ordered some iced coffee, brownie and ice cream float, I need to improve my mood eh.

Sorry to hear that. Where do you think you'd go if it turns out you can't stay, out of interest?
 
Sorry to hear that. Where do you think you'd go if it turns out you can't stay, out of interest?
Literally trying to figure that out now. Ehhh, many nomads have less stability - 3 months here, 3 months there. I somehow managed to live here 2 years almost with short visa runs that basically looked like going on (mandatory) vacation 2 times a year. I rented smaller, older place for a year, then got newly built house for this year. So basically had a relatively normal life during this time. Oh right, I'd have to inform my landlord that I break the lease if I don't manage to figure it out 🙄. It's sad because it was a great service, he's really hardworking and house is beautiful, I think he wanted to continue for another year and maybe more years, he looked for long term tenant 🙁. Lease ends in February, I think? And I have to leave in December? Ahhh. Would have to work on visa documents for new place, moving everything... Still, I can figure shit out in 2 months. Idk what these people that got sudden denials will do, technically they should leave right away, no time to organize moving company even 😬. Or if they stay they'll pay a fine for overstaying and get denial of re-entry for next 5 years 😬.

I feel sad because I liked the lifestyle but at the same time I'm angry because I didn't manage to incorporate here, get bank account, etc - there's just no right infrastructure to run a business. I think they prefer Investment Visas but I'll be honest with you - if I had that much I would not invest. Too many scams, if they can't stop themselves from stealing toothpicks how do they expect someone to give them tons of money? No way in hell, I wouldn't invest even if I could afford it. Wasn't dangerous here during my stay (honestly it was safer than my home country), normally they're not aggressive. But they're scammy, no way in hell I'm investing in that. Running a business and paying some tax (I already pay visas, I buy a lot of stuff locally and pay VAT on it) for long term residency purpose is fine but I didn't manage to incorporate. What a bureaucracy 😐.

So very mixed feelings since a lot of locals were FANTASTIC and treated us so well, we befriended people in both neighbourhoods, talked with our closest neighbour, we're such buds now that she started crying 🙁. I talked with some rich white dude that lives here for 20 years (investment visa, I think he runs a bar or a hotel), is married to a Sri Lankan and has mixed kids, he'll be talking with politicians soon since they are discussing immigrants problem 😐. Idk guys... Mixed feelings. I do feel scammed in a way because they lied and never gave resident visas to online entrepreneurs. To be fair, I can work online from anywhere and since government changed in Sri Lanka also taxes went up but infrastructure is still shit. Taxes went up for everyone, locals too. I see some Latin America countries have easier immigration and long tax breaks. In these countries I'd already have some form of residency, at least temporary ID card... And here? Immigration guy looks at us weird and contemplates whether kick us out right away or in 2 months 😐. Wtf you look at us weird? Obviously I'm not working offline, I don't want to earn in rupees. You invited us, info about that supposed nomad visa that never activated was all over the place. I spend money here (and a lot by local standards, they love me at shops at this point) and government treats me like shit... I'll be honest with you, I'd like easier incorporation, banking and immigration procedures. Even some nearby asian countries have multiple visa offices per country and in Sri Lanka I always have to spend half the day on the road because there's only one visa office for whole country, no branches 😐. Fuck, even something like Nepal has multiple branches, Philippines same. What's wrong with Sri Lanka? I like the locals and their (friendly) temperament, weather, prices, nature... But the government??? Jeeez. I actually tried to solve this during the first year we arrived but no go.
 
Spent today working on The Trading Realm… finally picking up some nice traction now with our traffic across socials so been weighing up where to concentrate on most.

Tonight going out clubbing in Vietnam - fucking love it here, it beats Thailand hands down!
 
Spent today working on The Trading Realm… finally picking up some nice traction now with our traffic across socials so been weighing up where to concentrate on most.

Tonight going out clubbing in Vietnam - fucking love it here, it beats Thailand hands down!
I am a fan of your work. There's a lot other people can learn from you.

Have fun.
 
Spent today working on The Trading Realm… finally picking up some nice traction now with our traffic across socials so been weighing up where to concentrate on most.

Tonight going out clubbing in Vietnam - fucking love it here, it beats Thailand hands down!
Heard Vietnam is the new travel destination previous it was Bali

You going to stay any longer I have plans to visit Nam somewhere in January
 
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Tonight going out clubbing in Vietnam - fucking love it here, it beats Thailand hands down!

How is Vietnam compared to Thailand in living, never been there myself.
 
gonna go cry in my bed



I'm essentially learning Swedish, and a lot about marketing outside of the English language... while securing the bag for my bad boys
 
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