OP
do you have match.com access in your country? Or similar service? that might solve your problem and remove the chip on shoulder?
They don't have those write-offs and I think that's why Reasski got a breakdown. It's pretty bad to singles in general. But if a man (single or not) gets a job he will get paid more than a woman. I will get paid less, while I have extra things to pay for. So it's a hierarchy, he's still pretty much fucked but above me still, I'm double fucked. You know, married couples with kids, they'll get help from the government (free money each month for each kid), food discounts, tax write-offs (so if they do business they have an advantage), paid child care leave for both parents if they're working a job. During covid they even got coupons for free vacations while I pretty much was loosing all my money. Women get paid less at jobs but if their partner is working, they get free money for each child (robbed from me and Reasski through taxes), they get food cheaper, etc, etc... Then they indeed are in a good situation. That's not the case for me. My living costs are literally higher being single and childless due to government interfering. My pay would be lower if I got a 9 to 5 since I'm a woman so it makes no sense to do anything else than business. But doing business I have highest tax rates. On top of that I need to buy these dumb sanitary pads, for example. If god forbid I were actually sexually active I'd also have to pay for all my contraception. You want to argue all you want but being a woman is an disadvantage. Never said men have it easy, but even the fact that any moment I even dare to mention my problems I'm instantly countered with 'oh, but men have it bad too' just shows how much you don't care about women and their problems. This also inspires me to avoid men in general and don't date. I already have enough problems, I don't want someone that hates me. I do realize @t2van had it *extra* hard and figured it out regardless (quite inspiring) and I'm not denying it. But each time you all show me how much you don't care the resentment grows. It is what it is. Doesn't sound like friends materials indeed
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Me saying I dont care about your gender should be a credit to you. But you rather take it as an insult?
It's a forum, it's no different to you saying people you become friendly with on here are not real friends. I'm friendly but I also don't care I have genially helped people here in real life and in tough situations @Outlaw I'm sure will contest to that, but then again hes a man so maybe I just had a mans back?
Do you want us or men in general to pity you? I thought women didn't want that anymore? I am confused.
If your single why not move to another country where you have a better chance? OR turn the clear chip you have about couples and men into fuel to drive something bigger and use it to get ahead.
Honestly that's what it reads like you have a major chip, use it. Get ahead and then go deal with that problem later or sooner which ever is holding you back..
My inbox always open to anyone who wants to chat or trouble shoot problems or just vent, anything said to me stays with me, that applies to you also @SilverClouds get sometimes posting stuff on a forum opens you up, to abuse or whatever but also people can't help if they don't know whats going on, part of your post also sounds like you might need some.
Obviously I've been passive in remarks because to be brutally honest I started a stupid thread and it's gone off to something crazy. I would have preferred someone saying they hare beard grooming adverts because they have alopecia or something not women v men v couples v breeders and tax implications lol
Every country’s challenges are slightly different but in the UK you’d have to be on the dole and/or a benefit fraud themself to have not gotten the point you’re making about not getting your money’s worth.