Only through shitty weeks/months we can appreciate and understand good months/years.
Without the opposite we cannot really feel or understand the opposite of the opposite.
Whole nations went through hardship, everyone does, we are not the exception.
This is what life is, as we live we must go through hardship, we are going to lose loved ones or they are going to lose us(if not by choice, then by death).
We are going to get sick, or age and be slow ...etc
it is what it is, but with all the hardships there are special moments and special things that make all of this worth it. The things you thought about when you read this is what gives you the mood boost you want mate.